So many of the men who call or who visit my webcam want the release of being told what to do, of servicing me. It surprised me and it opened up a whole new side of me. I had to reexamine my assumptions about men and women and how things work. It's fun and fascinating.
Of course, it's a self-selecting group. I don't think for a minute that men who come to a cross-dresser on cam can teach me a whole lot about the male/female dynamic, but still, it says something. I think what it says is that guys like pleasing a woman and don't mind being told what to do. The fact that this carries over to a CD is interesting and fascinating. In some ways, I wonder if it's the identification of his body with mine that makes me appealing. In a way, maybe it's like making love to yourself?
I'm not experienced enough to make any real conclusions about any of this, but it's an interesting theory.
